“Anxiety is misplaced trust—or unbelief. And we’ve got to stop sugarcoating it.”
What happens when we pray a dangerous prayer?
Recorded live at West Asheville Baptist Church, Carol brings a vulnerable, bold, and deeply Jesus-focused message about blind spots—the ones in our mirrors and in our hearts. With humor, truth, and urgency, she dives into Psalm 139:23–24 and challenges us to ask God to search the hidden parts of our hearts, exposing the places we’ve tried to ignore.
If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed by anxious thoughts, or like you’ve been playing it safe in your faith—this is the wake-up call wrapped in grace you didn’t know you needed.
Blind spots can wreck more than cars. Spiritually speaking, they keep us stuck—and it’s time to let Jesus point them out.
Anxiety is often misplaced trust. Carol reminds us that anxious thoughts are an invitation to surrender control and trust the One who knows our hearts.
We need to pray dangerous prayers. Asking God to search us may lead to painful exposure, but it also leads to healing, freedom, and deeper intimacy with Jesus.
What do you do when someone points out a blind spot in your life? Do you get defensive, retreat into silence, or lash out? In this honest and Jesus-centered conversation, Carol, Tricia, and Kelly unpack what blind spots really are, why they’re hard to face, and how Christian community can become a safe space for transformation. From church hurt to sacred sisterhood, this episode reminds us that God uses vulnerability to grow us—and that His love can handle our most uncomfortable truths.
Real community starts with safety.
It’s not enough to just eat chocolate in pajamas—we need spiritual sisters who speak truth in love.
Blind spots aren’t always sin—they can be good traits taken too far.
Sensitivity, for example, can turn into offense if left unchecked.
Vulnerability opens the door to healing.
When we stop pretending and start getting real, we give God room to move and others permission to be honest too.
đź’ˇ Looking for deeper friendships? Want to grow in faith and honesty? This episode is your permission slip to get real, get safe, and let Jesus into the areas you’ve been avoiding.
If you’ve ever whispered, “God, I don’t want to walk through this,” you’re not alone. Carol, Tricia, and Kelly get real about fear, control, spiritual warfare, and those seasons where your faith is tested in the deepest way. From honest confessions to powerful truths about God’s presence in the struggle, the girls remind us that we don’t walk through hard things alone—and we’re stronger when we do it together.
3 Takeaways from the Episode:
Fear isn’t always fear—it can be control, comfort, or spiritual attack. Discerning the root helps us fight it with truth.
God doesn’t give us more than we can handle with Him. He’ll prepare you for what’s coming, even when you don’t see it yet.
Our feelings don’t define our faith. Sometimes the step of faith comes before the feelings follow.
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What if peace isn’t found in a beach vacation, a new job, or a bigger bank account? In this episode, Carol, Tricia, and Kelly get real about the search for peace and the truth that it’s not something we can manufacture—it’s something God grows in us. From personal stories to biblical wisdom, the girls unpack what it means to experience peace as a fruit of the Spirit and how to stop chasing quick fixes that never last.
Whether you’re in the middle of a mess or just tired of trying to control everything, this episode is a reminder that true peace is found in Jesus—and He’s closer than you think.
👉 Want to take your first step toward peace? Text JESUS to 81891 and get a free resource called Steps to Peace with God.
Peace isn’t something you create—it’s something God produces through His Spirit when we stay close to Him.
Every destructive behavior starts with a thought. Changing your mindset with Scripture can reroute your actions and bring lasting freedom.
Jesus is the missing piece many are searching for. No amount of control, success, or comfort can replace a relationship with Him.
"God will cover the places where we feel like we failed. His faithfulness is greater than our parenting mistakes." - Tricia
Carol, Tricia, and Kelly open up about one of the hardest parts of motherhood: transitions. From senior year tears to the bittersweet excitement of kids stepping into adulthood, the girls share how they’re learning (and sometimes struggling) to trust God through the shifting seasons. They talk about soaking in the precious "lasts," dealing with feelings of failure, and how God's grace covers every imperfect moment. Whether you’re dropping off a kindergartner or a college freshman, this episode is packed with encouragement that reminds you: God’s got your child — and He’s got you too.
Soak up the present. – Even small moments, like sitting together doing nothing, are gifts. Be fully there.
Your child's future is in God's hands. – No matter what you feel you did or didn't teach them, God's plan for their life is bigger than your parenting mistakes.
Feel your feelings, but trust His faithfulness. – It's okay to grieve the changes, but let God's promises anchor you through every tear.
“Brokenness, when surrendered, God can use it. But if you
try to hold on, it will just keep hurting you.” - Carol
Can God really use someone who’s failed—or someone we flat-out disagree with? Carol, Tricia, and Kelly aren’t afraid to dig into the hard and holy tension of moral failure, public ministry, and the grace that makes redemption possible. They open up about personal pain, what restoration can look like, and how brokenness in the hands of Jesus becomes a powerful testimony.
It’s a conversation about discernment, the danger of personality worship, and why it's so important to keep our eyes on Jesus—not just the people who talk about Him.
God Uses Imperfect People: No one is perfect—and that includes pastors, speakers, and us. Our job isn’t to idolize people, but to follow Jesus.
Discernment is Essential: Look for sound doctrine, accountability, and fruit. Ask the Holy Spirit and wise counsel to guide you as you choose who to listen to.
Your Brokenness Isn’t Wasted: When surrendered to Christ, even the messiest parts of your story can become the most powerful parts of your testimony.
Whether you're wrestling with a public figure's failure or your own, this episode is a grace-filled reminder that God is still working—and He never wastes a surrendered heart.
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Ever feel like you're going through the motions in your faith? Like Jesus is your forever plan—but not part of your right now? In this episode, Carol, Tricia, and Kelly get real about what it means to live from eternity, not just for it. They talk about the Holy Spirit (in a way that makes it way less intimidating), those life-altering crisis moments, and why being a Jesus follower is so much more than checking a salvation box.
It’s honest. It’s deep. And it’s full of reminders that you're never walking alone.
Whether you're in the thick of motherhood, navigating loss, or just trying to find five minutes of quiet—this episode will help you breathe in God's presence and remember that the same power that raised Jesus from the dead is living in you today.
The Christian life isn’t just about eternity—it's about today. Jesus died so you could live in freedom, fullness, and grace right now.
Hard seasons are often where we grow the deepest roots. Don’t despise the crisis—God might be using it to bring you closer to Him.
The Holy Spirit isn’t weird—it’s wonderful. He’s your constant companion, counselor, and reminder that you're not doing life alone.
"God created you exactly how you are, even with a hamster wheel brain. Talk to Him just like that." - Kelly
Prayer can feel intimidating—like you’re supposed to have the right words, the right focus, or the perfect Pinterest-worthy prayer space. But today, Carol, Tricia, and Kelly get real about the struggle, the joy, and the freedom that comes from simply talking to Jesus.
They’ll talk about comparing prayer lives (ouch), what to do when your mind won’t stop racing, how prayer can be as simple as talking in the car, and why there’s no wrong way to start the conversation with God. Whether you’re a prayer warrior or someone who feels like they’re “bad at praying,” this episode is for you.
Come find freedom, grace, and a reminder that Jesus wants you—just as you are.
Stop comparing your prayer life to someone else’s highlight reel.
There’s no “perfect” prayer—just start talking to Jesus.
Prayer isn’t a formula.
It can be five minutes, a song in the car, or a moment of silence. God just wants time with you.
Use what you have.
Whether it’s a prayer walk, a blanket over your head (Ruth Bell Graham style!), or a sticky note reminder, there are simple ways to grow a habit of prayer—even in your busiest seasons.
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How do you encourage your husband's spiritual growth without turning into his personal Holy Spirit? Carol, Tricia, and Kelly unpack the beautiful mess of marriage, submission, and spiritual leadership—with grace, honesty, and a whole lot of Jesus.
Whether you're married, single, or somewhere in between, this episode reminds us all that God’s timing is perfect and His ways are better than ours. The girls talk candidly about what doesn’t work (hint: guilt, comparison, and control), what does (grace, prayer, and surrender), and how laying it all at the foot of the cross can change everything.
3 Takeaways:
✨ You can’t grow your husband spiritually—but you can get out of God’s way.
✨ Submission isn’t weakness—it’s a powerful act of trust in Jesus.
✨ Long-term prayer can change both your heart and your husband's.
Bonus Resources Mentioned:
đź“– The Power of a Praying Wife by Stormie Omartian
đź“– Love & Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
đź“– Chronological Daily Study Bible (a favorite for couples reading together)
Let’s be honest—gratitude isn’t always easy, especially when life feels like it’s falling apart or your Facebook feed makes you want to scream. In this conversation, the girls get real about what it means to have a heart of gratitude in a world full of discontent. From navigating tricky social moments to learning how to process tough emotions with grace, they open up about the messy middle between frustration and faith.
Whether you’re feeling burned out, unseen, or just straight-up annoyed with the world, this episode will remind you that gratitude doesn’t have to be sunshine and rainbows. Sometimes, it’s just taking a deep breath and choosing to trust God anyway.
Gratitude isn’t about faking it—it’s about finding something authentic to be thankful for, even in the mess.
Trust is the foundation of contentment. When you believe God knows what’s best, peace follows.
Emotions aren’t “good” or “bad.” They’re real—and learning to sit with them is key to growing spiritually.
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