How do you encourage your husband's spiritual growth without turning into his personal Holy Spirit? Carol, Tricia, and Kelly unpack the beautiful mess of marriage, submission, and spiritual leadership—with grace, honesty, and a whole lot of Jesus.
Whether you're married, single, or somewhere in between, this episode reminds us all that God’s timing is perfect and His ways are better than ours. The girls talk candidly about what doesn’t work (hint: guilt, comparison, and control), what does (grace, prayer, and surrender), and how laying it all at the foot of the cross can change everything.
3 Takeaways:
✨ You can’t grow your husband spiritually—but you can get out of God’s way.
✨ Submission isn’t weakness—it’s a powerful act of trust in Jesus.
✨ Long-term prayer can change both your heart and your husband's.
Bonus Resources Mentioned:
📖 The Power of a Praying Wife by Stormie Omartian
📖 Love & Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
📖 Chronological Daily Study Bible (a favorite for couples reading together)
Let’s be honest—gratitude isn’t always easy, especially when life feels like it’s falling apart or your Facebook feed makes you want to scream. In this conversation, the girls get real about what it means to have a heart of gratitude in a world full of discontent. From navigating tricky social moments to learning how to process tough emotions with grace, they open up about the messy middle between frustration and faith.
Whether you’re feeling burned out, unseen, or just straight-up annoyed with the world, this episode will remind you that gratitude doesn’t have to be sunshine and rainbows. Sometimes, it’s just taking a deep breath and choosing to trust God anyway.
Gratitude isn’t about faking it—it’s about finding something authentic to be thankful for, even in the mess.
Trust is the foundation of contentment. When you believe God knows what’s best, peace follows.
Emotions aren’t “good” or “bad.” They’re real—and learning to sit with them is key to growing spiritually.
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Sometimes, the hardest moments reveal the deepest truths. Carol, Tricia, and Kelly sit down for a long-overdue conversation about Hurricane Helene—a storm that changed lives, including their own. From sleepless nights at the station to neighborhoods cut off by floodwaters, the girls share their personal stories of survival, fear, and faith in the face of devastation.
They also highlight how The Light FM became a lifeline for so many during the crisis and why moments like these remind us that we are never alone.
And speaking of impact—you can be part of the story! Join us for The Light FM’s Impact Days, March 19-21, 2025, and help spread hope to others who need it most. 💙
Ever feel like your faith life is running on autopilot? Like you're just checking the boxes—praying, reading your Bible, going to church—but not really connecting with God? You’re not alone! Carol, Tricia, and Kelly open up about the seasons when their spiritual lives have felt dry and what helped them break free from the rut.
"We need a deeper relationship with Jesus—not a longer checklist."
The girls share practical ways to refresh your relationship with Jesus—without falling into another set of rigid “how-to” steps. From shifting focus in Bible study to embracing silence and worship, this conversation is packed with real talk and real encouragement.
If you’ve ever wondered how to build a spiritual rhythm that feels alive instead of routine, this episode is for you. 💛
Faith is a Relationship, Not a Routine – Just like friendships, your time with Jesus shouldn’t look the same every day. Mix it up, listen more, and invite God into all of your moments.
It’s Not About Feelings – Spiritual growth isn’t always felt immediately. Just like working out strengthens muscles, consistent time with God will strengthen your spirit—even when it doesn’t feel like it.
Silence is Powerful – If your quiet time is packed with prayers, devotionals, and study, but still feels dry, try subtracting instead of adding. Simply sit in God's presence and listen.
💌 We want to hear from you! What’s helped you break out of a faith rut? Share your thoughts with us at GirlTalk@thelightfm.org or join the conversation on our Facebook page.
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Sharing your faith can feel intimidating—whether it’s at work, on the ball field, or even in line at Walmart!
Carol, Tricia, and Kelly talk about why we hesitate to speak up about Jesus and how we often overcomplicate it. They share personal stories of both wins and awkward moments, like a simple conversation at a restaurant that led to a concert invitation—or an unexpected confrontation on a tennis court.
The girls remind us that sharing Jesus isn’t about having all the right answers or delivering a perfect sermon. It’s about being open, authentic, and willing to plant seeds wherever God places us. Plus, they offer practical ways to make faith-sharing a natural part of everyday life (yes, even at the dentist’s office!).
1️⃣ Keep It Simple – You don’t have to prepare a full sermon. Just share how God is working in your life naturally, in everyday conversations.
2️⃣ Don’t Fear Rejection – Not every conversation will go smoothly, but that doesn’t mean it was a failure. God is working behind the scenes.
3️⃣ Be Ready – Having a 60-second testimony or a go-to faith story can help you feel more confident when opportunities arise.
How do you share your faith in everyday moments? We’d love to hear your stories! Email us at girltalk@thelightfm.orgor connect with us on Facebook.
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Let’s be real—some people are just hard to love. Whether it’s a challenging co-worker, a family member who pushes your buttons, or just the stress of everyday life making grace feel impossible, we’ve all been there. The girls are getting honest about what it means to love well—especially when it’s inconvenient, exhausting, or just plain frustrating.
They tackle questions like: Do you keep score in relationships? How do you respond when someone hurts you? What does it mean to love like Jesus (even when you don’t feel like it)?
If you’ve ever struggled with giving grace to others (or even yourself), this episode is for you.
1️⃣ Loving well isn’t about trying harder—it’s about letting the Holy Spirit work through us. You don’t have to muster up love for difficult people on your own. It starts with surrender.
2️⃣ Keeping score in relationships only builds walls. Real love lets go of past hurts instead of holding them as ammo for later.
3️⃣ Self-awareness is key. If you’re feeling like everyone around you is hard to love, it might be a sign that you need a reminder of how deeply loved you are by God.
Discipleship. It’s one of those words we hear a lot, but what does it really mean? Carol, Tricia, and Kelly are digging into the real process of growing in faith, being mentored, and walking alongside others. Spoiler: It’s not about having it all together. It’s about being honest, intentional, and open to following the Lord as you go.
The girls share personal stories about their own discipleship experiences—some that shaped them in the best ways and others that challenged them to rethink what spiritual growth actually looks like. They unpack the power of community, the importance of asking “Who is discipling me?” and how to create a spiritual growth plan that actually works for your life.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re supposed to have it all together or wondered if you’re even growing at all, this episode will encourage you to take the next step—whatever that may be.
1️⃣ Spiritual Growth Takes Intentionality – Just like physical health, faith requires a plan. Whether it’s daily Bible reading, finding a mentor, or joining a community, growth doesn’t happen by accident.
2️⃣ You Don’t Need a “Perfect” Mentor – Discipleship isn’t always formal. Sometimes, the people who help us grow are the friends who challenge us, the elders who guide us, or the moments God uses to speak into our lives.
3️⃣ Stop Checking the Box—Start Abiding – Bible reading shouldn’t be about getting through a checklist. Meditating on Scripture, reflecting on its meaning, and applying it to life will transform your walk with God in ways a “read-the-Bible-in-a-year” plan never will.
Want to share your own discipleship journey? Have questions? The girls would love to hear from you! Email them at girltalk@thelightfm.org or connect on Facebook.
"The only thing harder than waiting on God is wishing you had." -Kelly
Carol, Tricia, and Kelly are pulling up their chairs and diving into a topic that so many women wrestle with—singleness. Whether you’re single by choice, waiting for the right person, or navigating life after divorce, this episode is full of laughter, honesty, and some much-needed encouragement.
From awkward wedding moments to breaking the stigma around being single, the girls get real about the struggles, the perks, and the spiritual growth that can come with this season of life. If you've ever wondered, “Why am I still single?” or “How do I embrace this season without feeling left out?”—this conversation is for you.
💡 Singleness isn’t a problem to be fixed – Culture often paints being single as "less than," but the Bible calls it a gift. Flip the script and see the opportunities that come with it.
💡 Waiting well is better than settling – Moving ahead of God’s plan just to be in a relationship can lead to regret. The only thing harder than waiting on God is wishing you had.
💡 Married friends, your single friends need you too! – Be mindful of how you can encourage and support your single friends in this season.
"God’s will is not a point, it’s a process. So take some pressure
off yourself—He’s got you!" -Carol
Carol, Tricia, and Kelly get real about navigating God's will—because let’s be honest, we’ve all wrestled with “Am I making the right choice?” From job losses to unexpected career pivots, the girls share personal stories of how God’s plan unfolds in ways we never expect (but always need). Take a deep breath, friend—you don’t have to have it all figured out. God's will isn’t a single point on a map; it’s a process. So how do you trust Him in the waiting? Let's talk about it.
✔️ You can’t mess up God’s plan. Even when life feels off-track, He is weaving everything together for your good and His glory.
✔️ God’s will is not a lightning bolt moment—it’s revealed step by step. Keep walking in obedience, and He will lead you.
✔️ Waiting is hard, but you can find peace in the process. Do what’s in front of you, trust His timing, and don’t let fear hold you back.
“Depression and anxiety are bullies. They push every other emotion aside, but God gives us the power to push back.” - Tricia
Feeling down, anxious, or just… off? You’re not alone. Carol, Tricia, and Kelly dive deep into the realities of depression and anxiety, especially during the colder months. From their own struggles to practical ways to fight back, the girls get real about mental health and faith.
Ever feel guilty about needing alone time? Struggle to get out of a funk? Wonder if God is even listening? The girls share what’s helped them, from therapy to scripture to a good old-fashioned walk outside. This episode is full of honest conversation, practical encouragement, and the reminder that you are never alone.
💬 Join the Conversation: Have you ever struggled with depression or anxiety? What’s helped you move forward? Let’s talk about it in our Girlfriends of the Girl Talk Podcast Facebook group or email us at girltalk@thelightfm.org. We’d love to pray for you! 💙