What does it really mean to be “the example of what right looks like”—at home, not just at work?
In this episode of The Daughtered Podcast, Oscar sits down with William C. Spears, a U.S. Navy submarine warfare officer who writes on leadership, ethics, and military life—and the author of Stoicism as a Warrior Philosophy.
Even though William is a father of three boys, his message is deeply relevant for girl dads and boy dads alike: your kids aren’t just listening to what you say—they’re learning from how you manage pressure, handle conflict, and take responsibility in real time.
This a packed episode:
Why fatherhood is the most important job
The leadership-parallel that keeps coming up
The difference between controlling emotions vs. suppressing them
A practical Stoic framework
The hard-but-powerful practice of “negative visualization” (and why it can make you more present)
William also shares where Stoicism gets misunderstood online, how he thinks about service and sacrifice as a dad, and why your kids watching you “own your reactions” may be one of the greatest gifts you can give them.
Connect with William:
Website: WilliamCSpears.com William C. Spears
Book: Stoicism as a Warrior Philosophy
Guest Disclaimer:
The views and opinions expressed on this podcast are solely those of the guests. They do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the host, any organizations, companies, or institutions mentioned, or corporate entities represented by the host.
Our aim is to provide a platform for diverse perspectives and open dialogue. While we strive for accuracy and balance, it's important to recognize that opinions may vary. We encourage critical thinking and further exploration of the topics discussed.
December 23rd, 2025, 05:30 am
The DAUGHTERED Podcast
Be the Example of What Right Looks Like: Stoicism for Dads w/ William Spears
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Published December 23rd, 2025, 05:30 am
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What does it really mean to be “the example of what right looks like”—at home, not just at work?
In this episode of The Daughtered Podcast, Oscar sits down with William C. Spears, a U.S. Navy submarine warfare officer who writes on leadership, ethics, and military life—and the author of Stoicism as a Warrior Philosophy.
Even though William is a father of three boys, his message is deeply relevant for girl dads and boy dads alike: your kids aren’t just listening to what you say—they’re learning from how you manage pressure, handle conflict, and take responsibility in real time.
This a packed episode:
Why fatherhood is the most important job
The leadership-parallel that keeps coming up
The difference between controlling emotions vs. suppressing them
A practical Stoic framework
The hard-but-powerful practice of “negative visualization” (and why it can make you more present)
William also shares where Stoicism gets misunderstood online, how he thinks about service and sacrifice as a dad, and why your kids watching you “own your reactions” may be one of the greatest gifts you can give them.
Connect with William:
Website: WilliamCSpears.com William C. Spears
Book: Stoicism as a Warrior Philosophy
Guest Disclaimer:
The views and opinions expressed on this podcast are solely those of the guests. They do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the host, any organizations, companies, or institutions mentioned, or corporate entities represented by the host.
Our aim is to provide a platform for diverse perspectives and open dialogue. While we strive for accuracy and balance, it's important to recognize that opinions may vary. We encourage critical thinking and further exploration of the topics discussed.
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Welcome to the Daughtered Podcast — where dads come to talk, think, grow, and thrive. I’m your host, Oscar, and this is a space for men who are committed to becoming stronger, more mindful, and more present—especially in the lives of their daughters. We believe that fatherhood is a journey of growth. Each conversation on this podcast is a chance to learn, reflect, and level up as a dad and as a man. Whether you’re a brand-new father or deep into the teenage years, we’re here to support each other through every stage. Being Daughtered means embracing the lessons our daughters are continuously teaching us and using them to become better. We challenge current misconceptions of masculinity and lead with strength, compassion, and intention—building stronger relationships and lasting memories along the way. This community is for every man who’s ready to show up—not as a perfect dad, but as a growing one.
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